She is no one for him!

A girl who never loved

Fell in love so deep

With a person who never loved her

& left her all alone to weep

With all the passion & intensity she loved

Her love was so pure

But for him it was a disease

Which that girl had no cure

She treated him as an angel

Protected him by daily praying

But always got hurt

“get lost” was his always saying

She tried so hard to get him in her life

Fought so much to make him her’s

She got nothing which she deserved

The love became her life’s curse

The person who brought smile on her face

Now bring tears in her eyes

That person made her forget her dreams

Who could have supported her to rise

She never received any love in return

What she got was scolding & disrespect

She still keeps thinking of him

But that guy don’t have any impact

She always wanted to have him in her life

Everyday she wished to be with him

But she was a no one a no one for him

Still & forever a no one for him!

The Magical Man - Shah Rukh Khan (SRK)

I was reading a book of my favorite actor and was fascinated by the story of his life. Suddenly thought of writing a blog for one of the most charming person of my life. I have written several blogs, several poems but never written anything for this beloved person so I thought of writing something special for this very special person!

It was Dilwale Dulhaniya le jayenge that changed the life of this person. The image of that time is quite blurred in my mind as it came in year 1995 when I was quite young but I still remember that I saw that movie in Movie Hall. That was the time when I actually started calling any actor my “favorite”. Yes, it was Shah Rukh Khan! So since that time, my favorite actor have always been SRK. I had never liked any other actor than him in all these years of my life.

Sometimes I wonder what is so special in this person. A person who bring a smile on my face every time even when I am sad or tensed! It's so strange that all of my worries and tensions fly away for some time whenever I listen to his movie songs or watch his movie scenes or watch any of his interview or simply by reading about him.

Is it those dimples that appear on his face while smiling or is it that naughty eyes which make me crazy? Is that his witty nature, sense of humor, his sensible conversation or is it that attractive personality which blows my mind? Is that the characters Rahul and Raj that fascinates me or his dance moves which attract me? I certainly don’t know; all I know is that he is an all-rounder and perfect in everything he does! He perform all his tasks with honesty and full dedication.

He is a great example who teaches us to believe in our dreams and to work hard in achieving them to ultimately rise from an ordinary human to become extra ordinary. A common middle class guy similar to any other ordinary person had many unrealistic dreams who faced lots of struggle in his life. A person who lost his father in a very early age and later, lost his mother too during the starting phase of his career. The only one person whom he had that time was his wife Gauri who believed in him and supported him when he had nothing. He came to Mumbai from Delhi with empty hands. It was not possible for this man to make his wife feel like a princess. He was struggling but with his hard work, energy and passion for work; he changed his life! This actually changed everything! The common man then became extra-ordinary! He became an inspiration for every one around the world!

The one thing that make me more closer to him is the “Scorpio impact”. Since I am also a Scorpio, it's very easy for me to understand him closely; his witty nature which sometimes people find rude, his sense of humor, his passion, his hard work, his tremendous energy, his intensity to perform all his tasks, his family orientated nature and also confidence in himself and the belief that “ he is the best”. All these traits clearly say that he is a 100% Scorpio! One thing which I want to make people understand who find him rude is that when he cracks a joke on some one (since i am also a Scorpio I can understand it), we just say it in a light manner so that it should be not be taken to the heart but yeah we make it clear that we don’t like it! This is how we are!

The most important thing which make Shah Rukh Khan is the “Rahul” or “Raj”; the characters which binds us more to him (especially to the girls). Yeah the girls want to have a person like him; one who can be a bit emotional; who care for us; the one who love us passionately; the one who whispers in our ears with intensity & devotion; the one who could make us feel like heaven; all this traits are present in his movie characters. He understand the nerves of people very well! He knows which things can make us emotional.

He is smart, he is intelligent, he is interesting! He is perfect in whatever he does! He is an amazing person! He has a charisma! He has achieved everything by himself! He is a self-made person! He is Shah Rukh Khan! He is magical! The magical man who do magic & take my worries away from me! He is the best & I wish that I also achieve something in my life so that I can be a proud SRK fan!

THE ANGEL

When things were not going right

When my life was filled with troubles

God took care of me

And an angel came in my life!

When loneliness was my friend

Sad and depressed was my mood

The angel brought a smile

And happiness came in my life!

Magic and miracles started happening

The angel assured that 

It will always there by my side

New dreams entered my life!

Tensions and worries were gone

Everything became lively and new

Beautiful things were all around

Sunshine came in my life!

With lots of care and concern

Angel protected me from all problems

A heavenly touch came in my life

The angel came in my life!

Life is all about giving smiles :-)

Life….i am not in mood to define what is life but just want to give an idea how can we make it more meaningful & beautiful. In our lives, we are all busy solving our own problems which never comes to an end and if it ends, then a new one arises. Each and every one has their own set of problems; no one is completely satisfied and happy in his/her own life. Troubles, tensions and worries have become an important part of our daily lives. There are just few moments when we actually get a chance to be happy and joyful. The rest of the times we just cherish those moment when we were happy. So why don’t we just try to make others smile. What can be better than making the other person feel happy because of us. In that way, the person will also cherish those good moments and we will remain in their memories forever.

It can be done in many ways,either by helping people in our workplace or by helping a stranger during a journey or by creating a joyful environment during a tension filled moment. We can also share the worries of others, their troubles & can help them to get motivated or cheer them up! There are so many small ways by which we can bring smiles on people's face.

If we closely observe a human's face, we will realize that a person looks beautiful when he/she is smiling. No expression is as much soothing, beautiful and pure than the smiling one. I believe that if God give us the opportunity to become a part of the golden moment of any other person's life then why are we waiting. Let's go and make other’s smile; not only our parents or relatives but our colleagues, our fellow human beings. After all we can understand each other, know each other very well that how many complications we go through each day.

Life is one, the opportunities are less! If you like something about some body, go and tell them. I am sure they will have a smile on their face. So go ahead and be a part of some wonderful moments!

IPL!

Just got the news that Gautam Gambhir will not be available for the West Indies tour because of injury!! Frustrating!! A bad news for people like us!! There was a time when IPL was a boon for me. I got a chance to see more and more cricket, to see my favorite retired players playing again and to see the passion of talented young players on the stadium. But now after reading the news about various injuries and test retirement, my heart is so broken! I don’t want IPL on the cost of injuries which keep my cricketers away from ODI & Test series. I don’t want IPL on the cost of retirement of my cricketers from Test and ODI cricket. This is ruining & killing the real cricket. I disagree with the players who are taking retirement from Test & ODI's to save themselves for T20 cricket. There was a time when every cricketer had a dream to play in whites; to play test cricket was the dream of every cricketer but now it is the IPL!! Strange, how things have changed!

I am worried for one more thing…..where is the loyalty gone! The players from Punjab are playing for Pune, the players from Mumbai are playing for Punjab or from Rajasthan. So can you expect them to give their all while playing? Do you expect that a team win will matter so much for them? I don’t agree! They are just playing because they are getting paid for it with no enthusiasm for their team or for their game! It's just us who are attached to our team so much! I am personally so much attached to Rajasthan Royals that each and every win or loss is similar to winning or losing a war for me! But what about the players? Sad  to say but they are not much attached! They are just playing a game and  after losing, its like a normal day for them. Since they are not from Rajasthan, it doesn’t make so much difference for them!! It's not just about my team but it doesn’t make any difference to most of them! Harsh reality!

Another important point to discuss here is the selection criteria. Why BCCI is considering the IPL performance as selection criteria for the National team? Why the hell Ranji and other domestic leagues are for? There are so many good players like Ajinkya & Rayudu who has exceptional records in Ranji but is it necessary for them to perform in IPL to get a chance! A player who is doing well in IPL is getting a chance easily to play in the National team then why can’t a good Ranji player?

So what's the solution of these problems? My biggest concern is the loss of real cricket in future! According to my opinion, IPL should be limited to Retired and Domestic players. Those players who are currently playing in their national teams should not be allowed to play in it! In that case, there won't be a need to make a special window for IPL and the players will be easily available for IPL. The retired players will have a good time playing cricket again who all are already so passionate for cricket. We had already seen their performances in previous IPL's which proves my statement. And yeah, for domestic players who need to prove and showcase their talent across the world could easily do so with the help of IPL as they are already doing!

Well, this is just my opinion and any one can differ from it. I just wrote all this as a true cricket fan! I don’t want IPL to be just Injured Players League or Indian Paisa League!!

Sometimes being good is too bad :(

I tried hard to become a perfect, a better human; some one who never believed in criticizing others, some one who never want to fight with others, the one who never want people to change and accept them the way they are.

Now I feels that it is bad to be like such a person. People think that I pretend and this is not the real me. Is it my fault if I am not like others? Is it my fault that I am not manipulative and think from my heart for all those whom I am attached with? Is it my fault that to be an emotional person? Is it my fault that i chose to remain different and unique ?

How to make people believe that this is the real me and I don’t pretend to be someone else! This is the truth of my life and I am not an emotional drama queen! I do things from my heart and I am a true Scorpio! I am a passionate person obsessed about many things and sometimes i do things in extreme. I don’t show or pretend. I have extreme emotions which is difficult for people to understand who don’t have them!

Hiding sadness behind a big smile!

Have you ever loved the smile of someone a lot? I believe that there are many who has the most lovely and beautiful smile in this world! But what's the reason behind that smile? Do you think that they are those people who are very happy and their life is quite joyful which is the reason that they carry a pretty smile on their faces.

No, it isn't the case every time. The reality is that they hide their sadness behind their smiling faces. Some people don't share their pain with others, they don't like sharing their feelings, they don't want that others should know about their sufferings. 

I know some one, some one who smiles a lot and get dimples on her face. She is going through a tough phase and suffering a lot. I am the unlucky one who can see that deepness of that smile, who understands how good actress she is, who is hiding her pain behind that smile, hiding all her sorrows. I wish she could smile from within, i wish she could display a genuine one day.