Friday, March 16, 2012

Me and Anti - Indian?



It always hurts when one or the other person tells me that I am an anti-Indian who doesn't love my country. How can people make their own opinion and conclude by saying such a thing so easily? This social networking is making me disturbed and sad from a long time. I am here only for few of my friends whom I don't wanna loose for those people who enjoy hurting my sentiments.

Whenever Indian cricket team has a game, it becomes a bad day for me! I got a message last night which say that I am an anti-Indian. I tried every possible way to explain that person what i think and who i am. But it's unfortunate that we can't make those people understand who have already formed an opinion about us.

The definition of being a true Indian for such people is to support Indian cricket team. What a small definition, right? For these people, who supports Indian cricket team and wants to settle abroad for their bright future or who wants to study outside are patriotic but me, who supports Australian cricket team, wants to work only in India and who have a dream to do something for the people of India is an anti-Indian!

Such people can never understand that it's me who is portraying a good image of Indians by being nice to people who are from all over the world like Sri Lanka, Bangladesh, Pakistan, Australia etc. Cricket fans from the world often complain that most of the Indian cricket fans abuse them, disrespect them and believe that there are the only one who understands cricket better and no one else should have a right to think differently. I don't say that all the Indian cricket team fans are same as i know many who respect the choices of others.

I am a person who don't like criticizing or disrespecting anyone. I like Dravid, Sachin, Sehwag ,Yuvraj and all the other Indian cricketers but the way, most of the people argue, criticize and disrespect my favorite players in front of me make me develop a small hatred towards them and most importantly, a desire to make them inferior as they always try to show their superiority over me.

A girl who loves India, who believes in all values of Indian culture, who never used abusive language ever in her life, who tries to remain good,who never waste a single unused paper, who never throw waste papers on roads, who always stop at red light even when it's 7 am in the morning when all the other vehicle crosses it, who help every other person when they need her IS AN ANTI-INDIAN because she loves Australian cricket team from her heart and a big fan of their players. Unfortunately she can't change because she don't do anything from her manipulative mind; she uses her heart and do things that make her happy and not others. She herself doesn't know why she loves Australian cricket team more than the Indian team. It's a known fact that when we like something, we have a reason for it but when we love something, we don't!

Neither can i change nor you. You have your own favorites and I have mine. I never said that your choices are bad then why are you telling me that my choices are bad? Respect everyone's feelings before making an opinion about them! If you have a heart that hurts then I also have it which has a feeling more than yours!

4 comments:

  1. i think ur a big cricket frnz :) :)

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  2. Well Said sister well said !!!

    But one thing Indian Cricket fan mainly do not do such thing nd there is so less in numbers who do it.
    i have an Experience of Nepal , here people Hate Indian by just the name India. though India never comes in their Places. pple here just hate all Indians. more than ninety five percent people are born to hate India.

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